Readings for The Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph
We often speak of a parish as a family. We extend greetings on behalf of the parish family and we often ask from the parish family. As we celebrate today the Holy Family, I thought it might be helpful to think about what it means to refer to the Church as a family.
If a person wishes to start a conflict today, just pose a question: What is a family? When I went to dictionary.com, I found a whole bunch of definitions.
–noun 1. a. a basic social unit consisting of parents and their children, considered as a group, whether dwelling together or not: the traditional family.
b. a social unit consisting of one or more adults together with the children they care for: a single-parent family.
2. the children of one person or one couple collectively: We want a large family.
3. the spouse and children of one person: We’re taking the family on vacation next week.
4. any group of persons closely related by blood, as parents, children, uncles, aunts, and cousins: to marry into a socially prominent family.
5. all those persons considered as descendants of a common progenitor.
6. Chiefly British . approved lineage, especially noble, titled, famous, or wealthy ancestry: young men of family.
7. a group of persons who form a household under one head, including parents, children, and servants.
8. the staff, or body of assistants, of an official: the office family.
9. a group of related things or people: the family of romantic poets; the halogen family of elements.
10. a group of people who are generally not blood relations but who share common attitudes, interests, or goals and, frequently, live together: Many hippie
communes of the sixties regarded themselves as families.
11. a group of products or product models made by the same manufacturer or producer.
12. Biology . the usual major subdivision of an order or suborder in the classification of plants, animals, fungi, etc., usually consisting of several genera.
13. Slang . a unit of the Mafia or Cosa Nostra operating in one area under a local leader.
14. Linguistics . the largest category into which languages related by common origin can be classified with certainty: Indo-European, Sino-Tibetan, and Austronesian are the most widely spoken families of languages. Compare stock ( def. 12 ) , subfamily ( def. 2 )
15. Mathematics . a. a given class of solutions of the same basic equation, differing from one another only by the different values assigned to the constants in the equation. b. a class of functions or the like defined by an expression containing a parameter. c. a set.
–adjective
16. of, pertaining to, or characteristic of a family: a family trait.
17. belonging to or used by a family: a family automobile; a family room.
18. suitable or appropriate for adults and children: a family amusement park.
19. not containing obscene language: a family newspaper.
—Idiom
20. in a / the family way, pregnant.
Given these various ways of understanding family, how is it the Church is a family? Obviously, there is a strong connotation that family is like marriage,
since “a man shall leave his father and mother and the two shall become one flesh.” There is the strong comparison of the love of Christ for the Church and
the love of a husband and wife. There is, at least in Western culture, a sense that family is both chosen (a woman chooses to marry a man) and not chosen (children do not get to choose their parents).
But it does seem quite obvious the concept of a family, the basic unit of society, is the necessary foundation for a strong society. We can usually admit that love is a powerful action that builds something permanent. Indeed, what parent does not witness the power of this love at the birth of their child?
It is in this powerful sense of love, of care and concern, of sacrifice and generosity, that family is used as a metaphor for the Church. It is quite obvious from Scripture the love of Christ is this powerful, and absolutely life giving person who builds, founds and sustains the Church. But the Second Vatican Council seemed to remind us that we too are entrusted with a mandate to carry out this love. ““In what might be regarded as the domestic church, the parents are to be the first preachers of the faith for their children by word and example” (Dogmatic Constitution on the Church, Lumen Gentium, #11).”
The word tradition means “to hand over.” What are we seeking to hand over to our children? What are we seeking to “pass on” to the next generation?
Do we see the Church as a family where we are challenged to hand over, to pass on, the most precious gift of all, namely the awareness of God’s presence
and action in the world?
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